Tori has had a hard time adjusting to China and staying with another family.... I'm considering telling her to not stress so much over sending me updates. Tell me, what would you all do?? I want her to have a good time in China and I hate that she feels so stressed out over everything...
Nanetta
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I think it can go both ways. On the one hand, you don't want her stressing to write to you, but on the other it can help you gauge her mental well-being. If she were older I think it would be the right thing to let her write when and if she wants, but at her age it may help to know you are there and she can write whatever she wants. She may also be dealing with issues that she is not quite comfortable sharing with you in relation to being adopted or in a transracial family, it might be stressing her to be that honest with you.
ReplyDeleteGood luck! Wishing you both the best.